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8/23/2006Let's All Grow Up and Play Nice, Shall We?
Rogers Cadenhead and Paul Kedrofsky aren't buying what Dave Winer is selling.
I have mildly defended Dave here a few times when I thought he was getting ganged up on and I have also said many times that he often makes it hard to defend him. Just yesterday, I mentioned how happy I am that Dave is focusing on Blackberry applications, simply because we need to close the media gap between the otherwise lovable Blackberry and every other phone on the market. I don't know Paul from Adam (though I note that he refers to himself as Dr. in his bio, so please think of me as either Lawyer Newsome, Mr. Newsome or Cool Rocking Daddy, take your pick, for the duration of this post). While I don't know Rogers, he seems like an allright guy and I have read his blog for some time. In other words, I don't really have a dog in this fight, and I really, really don't care who invented the internet or who invented news wires or news rivers or news papers. Rather, I will make three points about getting along in the blogosphere: First, whether Dave is right or wrong, he is sometimes his own worst enemy. When he writes something like this: "Over in another part of the tech blogosphere they're having a discussion about blogs that make big money. I still think Scripting News has the record there, by a wide margin. Last year we did $2.3 million in revenue. Expenses? One salary (mine) and about $1000 per month in server costs. A few thousand for contract programming. Pre-tax profit? Millions." That doesn't just sound like bragging- there's no other way to interpret it. It's a "look at me, I'm not getting enough attention" sort of thing. One of the basic rules of human interaction is that someone who keeps grabbing your collar and telling you over and over how smart or how successful they are is bound to lose the argument. Let it go. If you're smart and successful (which from my perspective Dave seems to be), people will figure it out. If they don't want to admit it, it's usually because they think you've been unkind, arrogant or a braggart. A pugilistic personality will grab the spotlight from personal achievement every time. Second, why write in condescending riddles like this: I don't share this space with hitch-hikers. I use my blog for my own ideas. They make good money. No point diluting what I have to say. I can see more arrogance and I can tell Dave's mad at someone, but I have no idea who. All that a reader who doesn't follow the story like Jane Goodall follows chimps can glean from that paragraph is contempt. For crying out loud man, just say what it is you want to say. Who are you dumping on? Everyone? No one? Just tell us. At least then there is the possibility that someone might agree with you. And finally, all this fighting over who invented what and all these little smart boy nerd-of-the-week clubs that pop up here and there in the blogosphere make the blogosphere look more like a nursery room than a place where intelligent grown-ups engage in distributed conversations about grown-up stuff. Everybody needs to grow up, take a long look in the mirror and stop believing their own bullshit. Is anybody with me? Tags:
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I'm definitely with you on everybody stop believing their own b.s.
By , at
8/23/2006 12:00 PM
Too true! Dave has long professed that you don't make money on a blog with ads, but thru self-promotion. I think he's upset at the people that are making money on a blog with ads.
By Randy Charles Morin, at
8/23/2006 1:43 PM
Now did Dave Winer make that 2.3 million from selling Weblogs.com? If so then I don't think he can make claims that he's making from his blog. He sold an application.
By , at
8/23/2006 5:33 PM
I'm all for civility. Nobody should have to be childish to be real.
By Sterling Camden, at
8/23/2006 6:48 PM
"One of the basic rules of human interaction is that someone who keeps grabbing your collar and telling you over and over how smart or how successful they are is bound to lose the argument."
By Seth Finkelstein, at
8/24/2006 12:56 AM
Seth, I suppose you're correct, at least in some instances, about the collar tugger from the business world perspective. I was coming at it from a conversational perspective- which is my default view of the blogosphere.
By Kent, at
8/24/2006 11:31 AM
My first impulse upon reading your post was to totally agree that as adults we should be able to play nice... that’s what we try and teach our kids, right?
By Earl Moore, at
8/24/2006 12:28 PM
I read the article, and simply posted a question about how he did it.
By michael webster, at
8/24/2006 3:27 PM
If you'll allow a quick bit of speculative exegesis.
By phil jones, at
8/24/2006 10:33 PM
Phil, I really appreciate the exegesis. It's sorely needed sometimes to try to understand what Dave is trying to say.
By Kent, at
8/24/2006 10:51 PM
If I can paraphrase: "Use your blog as platform to *market* your *consulting* business, and sell *services*". This sounds very very appealing. The problem is that it doesn't stand up to close examination. In order to market your consulting business, well, you need to have a consulting business in the first place, and that's only a small percentage of the population. Similarly, a service platform is difficult to have succeed (though granted, he did). But by definition, this will only work for a very few people. One harmful aspect of blog-evangelism is to take those relative handful of people who do succeed that way, and then trumpet them as The Way Things Should Be Done, because, hey, it worked for *them*. But, if e.g. you're going to sell a notification service for millions, you need to have a huge number of people using that notification service, to make it commercially valuable. So mathematically, only very few such services can be profitable - unfortunately usually correlated with those "who keeps grabbing your collar and telling you over and over how smart or how successful they are", and that they're the #1 top guy inventor, so thus the moneybags should buy-into and then buy-out, their service, and not anyone else's.
By Seth Finkelstein, at
8/25/2006 2:03 AM
He's boasting about his income from selling weblogs.com, not to be obnoxious about his wealth, but because he's desperately trying to push people to think outside the box and see opportunities beyond traditional advertising. Of course, he'd have never seen the opportunity of a "weblogs.com" if he hadn't been immersed in the blogging world.
By Rogers, at
8/25/2006 6:27 AM
[quote]If I can paraphrase: "Use your blog as platform to *market* your *consulting* business, and sell *services*". This sounds very very appealing. The problem is that it doesn't stand up to close examination. In order to market your consulting business, well, you need to have a consulting business in the first place, and that's only a small percentage of the population. Similarly, a service platform is difficult to have succeed (though granted, he did). But by definition, this will only work for a very few people.[/quote]
By phil jones, at
8/25/2006 10:14 AM
"Whereas *everyone* and his mother-in-law are gonna get rich from AdWords, right? :-)"
By Seth Finkelstein, at
8/25/2006 1:52 PM
Heh, to think I nearly missed this!
By Danny, at
8/25/2006 5:32 PM
From Wikipedia:
By Nick Miners, at
8/25/2006 5:40 PM
you put your finger on precisely what bothers me most--or at least cloes to most--about this kind of Winerlogic: you know he's out to get someone; sometimes you can glean who; sometimes someone else names who; sometimes dave can't contain himself and comes out with it two posts later, then edits how he reallly feels, then deletes the post, or leaves the post but puts up a little thumbnail graphic and tries to make it all ok.
By Jeneane Sessum, at
8/27/2006 11:18 PM
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